I personally find not loving people impossible. Even “bad” people. But my ex…for all his faults told me something interesting. You can love someone and not like them or respect them at all. *nope no generosity*
Yeah, I know that. I have zero respect for him- the whole loving bit is hard though, because a lot of what he did was influenced by his BPD, so… I don’t know.
/yes all of it shh