ghostonyx replied to your post:
I personally find not loving people impossible. Even “bad” people. But my ex…for all his faults told me something interesting. You can love someone and not like them or respect them at all. *nope no generosity*
Yeah, I know that. I have zero respect for him- the whole loving bit is hard though, because a lot of what he did was influenced by his BPD, so… I don’t know.
/yes all of it shh
ghostonyx said:
I think it’s okay to love him, so long as you can also accept that no matter his reasons nothing makes what he did alright or okay. It’s contradictory…but strangely I think it helps [Snuggles and hums]
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